OJD  Vol.7 No.4 , November 2018
Effective Coping with Loneliness: A Review
Abstract: Loneliness has been part of the human experience since the beginning of time. It cannot be avoided, but we may be able to cope with it, address its pain and possibly lower its frequency in our lives. This review addresses the theoretical approaches, and the author’s own research which aims at exploring various means of coping with loneliness.
Cite this paper: Rokach, A. (2018) Effective Coping with Loneliness: A Review. Open Journal of Depression, 7, 61-72. doi: 10.4236/ojd.2018.74005.

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